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In this episode, we perceive an effective technique of changing a person’s course of action, as depicted in Sangam Literary work, Aganaanooru 218, penned by Kabilar. Set amidst the pouring rain of the midnight hour in the ‘Kurinji’ or ‘Mountain landscape’, the verse etches the dangers in traversing this domain by night.
‘கிளை பாராட்டும் கடு நடை வயக் களிறு
முளை தருபு ஊட்டி, வேண்டு குளகு அருத்த,
வாள் நிற உருவின் ஒளிறுபு மின்னி,
பரூஉ உறைப் பல் துளி சிதறி, வான் நவின்று,
பெரு வரை நளிர் சிமை அதிர வட்டித்து,
புயல் ஏறு உரைஇய வியல் இருள் நடு நாள்,
விறல் இழைப் பொலிந்த காண்பு இன் சாயல்,
தடைஇத் திரண்ட நின் தோள் சேர்பு அல்லதை,
படாஅவாகும், எம் கண்’ என, நீயும்,
‘இருள் மயங்கு யாமத்து இயவுக் கெட விலங்கி,
வரி வயங்கு இரும் புலி வழங்குநர்ப் பார்க்கும்
பெரு மலை விடரகம் வர அரிது’ என்னாய்,
வர எளிதாக எண்ணுதி; அதனால்,
நுண்ணிதின் கூட்டிய படு மாண் ஆரம்
தண்ணிது கமழும் நின் மார்பு, ஒரு நாள்
அடைய முயங்கேம்ஆயின், யாமும்
விறல் இழை நெகிழச் சாஅய்தும்; அதுவே
அன்னை அறியினும் அறிக! அலர் வாய்
அம்பல் மூதூர் கேட்பினும் கேட்க!
வண்டு இறை கொண்ட எரி மருள் தோன்றியொடு,
ஒண் பூ வேங்கை கமழும்
தண் பெருஞ் சாரல் பகல் வந்தீமே!
In this adventurous trip to the mountains, we get to hear the confidante say these words to the man, when she brings the lady over for a nightly tryst:
“A strong male elephant with a steady gait, one which is celebrated by its kith and kin, brings bamboo shoots for the whole herd and lets them feed contentedly, at a time when the skies flash their lightning in the hue of swords, scatter many thick drops of rain, which leap from the skies, and pour down, surrounding cool mountain peaks, as clouds resound aloud with thunder, during the darkness-drenched midnight hour.
Saying, ‘Her eyes will not find any sleep unless she unities with my thick and curving arms, pleasing to the eyes, and adorned with strong ornaments’, and without thinking, ‘The paths through the huge mountain ranges, where in this hour of confusing darkness, a huge tiger with swaying stripes stands in wait for wayfarers, is dangerous’, you think it’s easy to come here. It’s also true that if even for one day, she does not get to embrace your cool and fragrant chest, adorned with a fine and intricately etched necklace, her exquisite ornaments would slip away; So, if mother would come to know of this, so be it! If the gossiping women of this uproarious town were to hear of this, so be it! Come by day, to this cool mountain slope, which wafts with the together fragrance of the fire-like flame-lilies, swarming with bees, and the radiant flowers of the Kino tree!”
Time to brave the rain and leave on a midnight trek. The confidante starts by sketching an image of a male elephant, which is thoughtful and considerate to its herd and brings shoots and leaves for them to feed on and is much celebrated by the herd. After a record of that estimable being, the confidante turns her attention to the weather, which is quite stormy, bringing down heavy rain on the peaks. She says all this is happening at midnight. At this time, the man thinks about how his beloved would not find any sleep, if she did not unite with him and without caring about the danger in that mountain path, where a tiger waits to pounce on some innocent wayfarer, the man comes walking to tryst with the lady, in the confusing hour of darkness, the confidante explains. She also concedes that indeed the lady would lose her health and her jewels would slip away from her arms if at all the man did not come to meet her. After mentioning all this, as if she has come to a conclusion, she tells the man, ‘Never mind if mother comes to know of your relationship, never mind if the slanderous womenfolk in town get to know about it, but you must come to our mountain slope, wafting with the scent of both the flame-lily and the Kino flowers, only by day.’
While it may sound like a harmless request to change the time of the rendezvous, it’s a neatly-worded statement to make the man change his attitude of temporary trysting and make him seek the lady’s hand in marriage. The confidante does this in a gradual and logical manner, first appealing to the man’s sense of honour by talking about that esteemed elephant, which keeps the entire herd in mind, then she goes on to appreciate the man’s love for the lady, and his fearlessness in fulfilling his duty by her. At this point, she talks about how the lady too is worthy of his love and truly reciprocates his feelings. After all these statements, she presents it to the man as if the only logical solution is to meet by day, so as to not fear for the man’s safety. Even there, she brings in the other danger of mother knowing and the women gossiping, and through his, without telling the man, she tells him, the only way forward is to marry the lady, in front of the whole village, and be honoured like the elephant we just met. Holding the other to a high standard, acknowledging the positives, establishing the worthiness of the recipient, and nudging the concerned person to come up with the idea on their own are the nuanced steps that this master negotiator of the Sangam era takes, to bring lasting joy in her friend’s life!
